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SINGLE MEN AND WOMAN OF TONGA AROUND THE WORLD
Me, Myself, and I
MALO E LELEI AND WELCOME YOU TO OUR SINGLE ABODE........ ARE YOU LOOKING TO MEET A NICE, LIKE MINDED, SOUL MATES, CUPID MATCH, FUN, SOCIABLE TONGAN MAN AND WOMAN......HERE IS YOUR KIND OF SITE........FAIRLYTALES CAN HAPPEN, YOU JUST NEED TO BELIEVE IT.....JUST LEAVE ME A LITTLE SHORT NOTE AND BEAUTIFUL PICTURE OF YOURSELF AND LET SEE IF YOU DAMPENED THE HEART AND MIND OF MEN AND WOMAN FROM THE ISLAND PARADISE OF TONGA.

'OFA ATU

KASAANITA LUPE'EVA 'AMELIA KALANETI 'A VUNA

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  • CHOOSING NOT TO BE A TARGET..

    Emotional Attacks

    Hurtful confrontations often leave us feeling drained and confused. When someone attacks us emotionally, we may wonder what we did to rouse their anger, and we take their actions personally. We may ask ourselves what we could have done to compel them to behave or speak that way toward us. It's important to remember that there are no real targets in an emotional attack and that it is usually a way for the attacker to redirect their uncomfortable feelings away from themselves. When people are overcome by strong emotions, like hurt or anguish, they may see themselves as victims and lash out at others as a means of protection or to make themselves feel better. You may be able to shield yourself from an emotional attack by not taking the behavior personally. First, however, it is good to cultivate a state of detachment that can provide you with some protection from the person who is attacking you. This will allow you to feel compassion for this person and remember that their behavior isn't as much about you as it is about their need to vent their emotions.

    If you have difficulty remaining unaffected by someone's behavior, take a moment to breathe deeply and remind yourself that you didn't do anything wrong, and you aren't responsible for people's feelings. If you can see that this person is indirectly expressing a need to you whether they are reaching out for help or wanting to be heard , you may be able to diffuse the attack by getting them to talk about what is really bothering them.

    You cannot control other people's emotions, but you can control your own. If you sense yourself responding to their negativity, try not to let yourself. Keep your heart open to them, and they may let go of their defensiveness and yield to your compassion and openness.

    2 Comments 180 weeks

  • Does Happiness depend upon comfort? ’

    The answer is definitely a big, ‘No! ’
    Happiness lies in not comforts alone!
    Happiness is not a static quality of the human mind, body and soul.

    All can’t remain happy all the time.
    It would be foolishness to wish for a life, filled with happiness alone;
    Happiness is more when woes come in-between.
    Happiness is just a feeling weird!

    Life could become boring and monotonous, when happiness is prolonged.
    Even the pauper can be happier than the prince.
    Even the beggar smiles and sleeps well, despite much strife.

    Happiness is a frame of mind that’s dynamic in nature;
    Happiness is a kind of mood of feeling very well;
    Happiness is a state of one, when life seems worth living;
    Happiness is something strange that varies with time, experience and wisdom.

    I wish you all a lovely happy happy Week,

    Sonia

    7 Comments 190 weeks

  • Why it's better to be a Woman!

    1. We got off the Titanic first.

    2. We get to flirt with systems support men who always return our calls, and are nice to us when we blow up our computers.

    3. Our boyfriend's clothes make us look elfin & gorgeous. Guys look like complete idiots in ours.

    4. We can be groupies. Male groupies are stalkers.

    5. We can cry and get off speeding fines.

    6. We've never lusted after a cartoon character or the central female figure in a computer game.

    7. Taxis stop for us.

    8. Men die earlier, so we get to cash in on the life insurance.

    9. We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.

    10. Free drinks, Free dinners, Free movies ... (you get the point).

    11. We can hug our friends without wondering if she thinks we're gay.

    12. We can hug our friends without wondering if WE'RE gay.

    13. New lipstick gives us a whole new lease on life.

    14. It's possible to live our whole lives without ever taking a group shower.

    15. We don't have to fart to amuse ourselves.

    16. If we forget to shave, no one has to know.

    17. We can congratulate our team-mate without ever touching her butt.

    18. If we have a zit, we know how to conceal it.

    19. We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates are still there.

    20. If we're dumb, some people will find it cute.

    21. We don't have to memorize Caddyshack or Fletch to fit in.

    22. We have the ability to dress ourselves.

    23. We can talk to people of the opposite sex without having to picture them naked.

    24. If we marry someone 20 years younger, we're aware that we look like an idiot.

    25. Our friends won't think we're weird if we ask whether there's spinach in our teeth.

    26. There are times when chocolate really can solve all your problems.

    27. We'll never regret piercing our ears.

    28. We can fully assess a person just by looking at their shoes.

    29. We know which glass was ours by the lipstick mark.

    30. We have enough sense to realize that the easiest way to get out of being lost is to ask for directions.

    1 Comment 197 weeks

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  • An Original Australian Poem for the SINGLEs

    Disco Nouveau by Disco Nouveau
    An Australian Love Poem
    (Who said Australians weren't romantic?)

    Of course I love ya darling
    You're a bloody top notch bird
    And when I say you're gorgeous
    I mean every single word

    So ya bum is on the big side
    I don't mind a bit of flab
    It means that when I'm ready
    There's somethin there to grab

    So your belly isn't flat no more
    I tell ya, I don't care
    So long as when I cuddle ya
    I can get my arms round there

    No sheila who is your age
    Has nice round perky breasts
    They just gave in to gravity
    But I know ya did ya best

    I'm tellin ya the truth now
    I never tell ya lies
    I think its very sexy
    That you've got dimples on ya thighs

    I swear on me nanna's grave now
    The moment that we met
    I thought u was as good as
    I Was ever gonna get

    No matter wot u look like
    I'll always love ya dear
    Now shut up while the footy's on
    And fetch another beer.

    cheers xx
    1 Reply 196 weeks

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  • Jernnifer Mohamed

    Hello it is my pleasure to contact you i am miss jernnifer am looking for friendship please contact me direct to my email (jernnifermohamed/@/yahoo/./com)&n  bsp;

    Jun 4
  • Lina Michael
    Lina Michael

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    7/28/12
  • Pattric Moris
    Pattric Moris

    hello sweetie....How are you....Smile.....You single or married.....What brought you here and what are you looking for on here......What your name and where you from.....Wink....

    10/9/11
  • Melenaite Hafoka
    Melenaite Hafoka

    Malo mu'a si'i tala popoaki 'a Paleisasa .. ofa pe nake ma'u ha ngaahi aho malolo fiefia mo fonu me'a'ofa hahaha .. :L :L :L @ ulufihi kokoe moau fie ma'u so moau :L :L :L ofa atu ulufihi tokaange pe ha taimi e si'i ma'u ai hata kii so eeh vaveni mai pe :L :L :L :L Malo Toa sii tauhi fale koe hange koe lau, koe hu pe ma'u he mo'umo'ua pea koe kii taimi si'i pe fa'a hu mai ai .. ofa lahi atu kihe kau member ofa ke tapuakii mai kitautolu he Eiki he ta'u fo'ou koeni HAPPY NEW YEAR.

    1/8/11
  • Paleisasa Tuamoheloa
    luv Paleisasa Tuamoheloa

    kor ngaahi 'aho ni foki koe me'a na'e movete ke feinga'i ke fktahatah'i, na'e vamama'o ke ofi, na'e mole ke ma'u, na'e pulia ke 'ilo, pea 'e toki lelei fakamanako mo faka mafana...tukuange mu'a ke leleaki'i atu ha popoaki fkkilisimasi pea moe amanaki atu kiha ta'u fo'ou monu'ia...pea ki he kalasi ko'ena 'oku kei heuheu mou feinga mai a, ketau lava ki ha kalsi'aho

    12/25/10
  • My Titanic Red Rose
    My Titanic Red Rose

    'e 'ai foi manavaloloa ka tau toki pa'eheee 'ofa atu.

    12/14/10
  • Beauty Smith
    luv Beauty Smith

    malo mu'a sii afea mai etau peesi , kuo lahi ae moua he ngaue pea kuo hange kuo kii vaha atu ae fklelea ae kau tauhifale :L :L :L ofa pe oku mou ma'u ha uike eni fiefia mo fonu kelesi'ia , ofa ke tapuakii mai kitautolu he Eiki..

    12/5/10
  • My Titanic Red Rose
    luv My Titanic Red Rose

    Foi heart ena maa moutolu ofa atu.

    11/18/10
  • Rochelle Maliukaetau
    Rochelle Maliukaetau

    hi im a single aussie lady moving to tonga next year 2011 july with my 3 daughters who are half cast tongan /australian i was married to a tongan man but now we are no longer together im bringing my children over to see how their culture lives ..exciting!!

    11/16/10
  • Ulufihi
    Ulufihi

    kou femau so au ia

    11/11/10
  • Kama'Aina
    luv Kama'Aina

    hei malo mua tau moe feitu"una pea malo mua sii fieafea mai ki tulikini kai ke ai ha mea lelei ia teu mau kae atu pe ki foi mea ko 'ENA li atu ha tuli hena .

    11/6/10
  • Beauty Smith
    luv Beauty Smith

    Malo mu'a FHLNK si'i lava mai .. ofa pe keke ma'u ha afo fiefia mo fonu monu'ia .. ofa lahi atu kau single ..

    11/5/10
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    luv FAi Ho Loto Na Kaumuimui

    malo e lelei a e kau singikolo pea malo mua e fkafe pea kuo te sii fiefianoa ai pe.ikai sia mea e mau he ko e masiva kae oatu pe mua ena naa i ai siano aonga.take care ofa atu

    11/3/10
  • Melenaite Hafoka
    luv Melenaite Hafoka

    Here's a heart for the singles .. ofa ke mou ma'u ha efiafi fiefia mo fonu fiefia lelei pe :L :L :L :L God bless..

    11/3/10
  • My Titanic Red Rose
    luv My Titanic Red Rose

    apele 'ena ma'a moutolu.

    10/14/10
  • Evelyn Ayuba

    evelynayuba@yahoo.co.uk - My name is Evelyn Ayuba, I am looking for True Love and Friends,I wi ll like us to have Email to Email communiction,contact me at(evelynayuba@yahoo.co.uk)For us to know each other better and exchange our pictures,I hope to hear from you soon, Love From Evelyn

    10/7/10
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    10/3/10
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    fkheka mai mu'a hena ha kii single kema heka loua he hoosi :L :L :L kii talutalua holo he paaka :L :L :L

    9/24/10
  • My Titanic Red Rose
    luv My Titanic Red Rose

    :L :L :L :L :L :L :L ofa atu Dave.

    9/22/10
  • Dave
    luv Dave

    Koe mahina eni 'oe fo'i lea koe ( kumi ) koe talanoa fka tata 'a sisu kihe sipi 'e toko teau pea mole ki'i sipi 'e taha,moe fefine mo 'ene fo'i paanga 'e hongofulu pea mole e fo'i paanga 'e taha,peane tuku e hiva kane kumi e taha,ko au 'ae taha koia,na'e lahi ange hoku mahu'inga 'oku ia he hiva na'e toe,'ofa lahi 'ae 'Eiki fai ma'aku,he na'ane kumi pe ke 'ilo peane kumi pe ke ma'u au,'io,na'ane kumi au 'e sisu 'ihe 'akau peane hanga 'o 'ilo he mata 'oe tao,'koe ki'i fka 'ali atu pe e ki'i fka ma'opo'opo e ki'i malanga na'e fai 'ofa atu single ongo tama koe fo'i love 'ena ma'a moua n God Bless

    9/21/10