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- I wish I could find the strength to dig my out
- Me, Myself, and I
- My life???
Well...im jus a guy who lives his
life one step at a tym...
Treasures the moments where
life is at its peak of perfection!
Sacrifice anything if its feels
its needed fo da greater good!
And jus takes thingz as they come...
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6. 21st Blow Out
8. Canon 550D
9. New room layout
10. Be the man she wanted me to be.
In the face of true love, you don't just give up.. even if the
object of you affection is begging you to. Chuck Bass
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i want to let yu knw on a lil secret
im not hu yu think i am
in fact my disguise is so thin
im surprised u havent seen ryt thru me
im d guy of ur dreams masqueradin as ur bestfriend
0 Comments 202 weeks
you know i was sitting here thinking today about why girls always expect guys to do the right thing with out the girl having to tell the guy what to do...like guys, when u ask ur girl what they want for their birthday and they always say "i dont really want anything" and so u have two options...you can either...get them nothing and get in trouble OR you can attempt to get them something they will hopefully like but still have a chance of gettin it wrong and gettin in trouble....now im not say ALL girls are like that...but those guys that are out there that are havin this kind of problem i think i have found the reason why
i have found that the female mind is the most confusing and complex thing ive encountered...and there in that statement lies the answer...i think the biggest reason why girls leave us empty handed when it comes to givin us advice on what they want is quite simple...they jus want to be understood...that need to be reassured that their man knows them...and that they are understood and appreciated...cause i mean lets be honest...who would like to be in a relationship where u arent understood.
goin bak to the "birthday scenario" i think the reason that girls leave it up to us to figure what to get them is that they want to see if we understand them...they need to know that we understand what they like and what to get them. but girls let me jus say that i understand how u feel...and i agree u deserve the right to be understood bt i must say...they way u do it is FUCKING CONFUSING...there are easier ways to find out if we understand you or not...for example jus stragiht up talking about it...sit us down and talk about it...wait till ur partner is in a good mood and not distracted by anything...and jus sit them down and talk bout it...cause us guys are simple creatures...we judge things as we see them...by whats in front of us...we dont assume things with out good evidence...its like u expect us to read your mind...as childish as that sounds...its true in sum scenarios...you randomly test us to see if we will do the right thing or not with out first giving us your opinion or advice. and if you do that of course there is a big chance that a guy is gonna mess up and it will lead to a fight.
now guys...girls arent all to blame for this problem...we can help make things a lil bit easier, first things first....actually LISTEN to ur girl...take in what she is saying and make sure it registers. if your girl takes the time to sit u down and talk to u about something serious you should acknowledge that they have taken time outta there day to make time for you and that they respect you enough and value ur opinion bout the subject so you shud return the favour by actually listenin and givin ur honest opinion ( u dont HAVE to agree with them. but give ur honest opinion) another way to make those annoying "TESTS" go a lil smoother is...if you are really needing her opinion is jus talk to her...i knw ive said that already but lack of communication is a huge reason why couples fight. sitting down and tellin your girl that you dont know what they want and you want there opinion is the first way to go. and i know some guys find it hard to do that, but remember, you dont gotta do some HUGE mushy romantic scene jus to talk bout your feelings man...geez this aint the movies LOL. you can give her a call, a text or jus wait till u see her next... theres no huge pressure that u have to be all sweet and romantic...jus tell them straight up what the situation is and what you wanna know from them and then jus take things from there and jus discuss it calmly.
in conclusion i think us guys can do a lil more to make things a bit easier...and that goes the same for u girls.
guys jus be a lil more understanding...if a girl does something that SEEMS like shes jus doin it to give them a reason to be mad at you...think twice...sit them down and talk it out...find out what they want and put a bit of effort into tryin to understand them
4 Comments 250 weeks